World Aids Day, World Aids Day! What does it mean exactly? Where does it come from in this our 21st century? I know the idea behind World Aids Day, well at least I think I do. What is its intention though? What are we to do? Do we come together as one country, one nation,one world? Well I guess it does say World Aids Day so that must be one world, one universe. If we take it beyond world and universal does it impact us all on this Remembrance Day or do we just change things by calling it Universal Aids Remembrance Day? Is that what we are supposed to do on this day, remember? If that is the intent, I remember my friends who died from this deadly disease called Aids. Some have been dead for 20 years now and when I stop and think of them I remember their smiles, their lives, their living.
But I also remember their deaths, by remembering I can help myself and others from contracting this deadly disease called Aids so that more don’t die in vain. I remember the vigils at their bedside as they slipped away. I remember seeing friends reaching out for my hand, squeezing it and telling me they love me, and me whispering it back to them before they closed their eyes in death.
I remember some of them recovering because of the new medicines that allowed them to get up out of their beds and go home to family, friends and lovers. I remember some of them saying that they were going to beat this thing called Aids and I know some of them who are still living with what is now referred to as “The Virus!” I am sure that they remember where they once were every morning, afternoon and evening and they must remember to continue to take their medicine or take a chance on not living. I remember those friends of mine who today are contracting the disease even though it is preventable because they feel they can take a chance and not contract this fatal disease. Some wind up with “The Virus” and say well there are medicines? Well there might be, but I still remember those who have died from Aids who if given the chance today would opt for the prevention of this disease.
I remember a song sung by that fabulous diva Ms. Diana Ross – “Reach out and touch somebody’s hand make this world a better place if you can.” The lyrics are so telling and beautiful – “Take a little time from your busy day to give some encouragement to some one whose lost their way and would I be talking so strong if I asked you to share a problem that’s not your own?”
Aids is a problem for all of us. We should remember that in this World, this Universe the hope lies within us and the price was paid by those who have gone on before us. Let’s remember them and let’s remember only We can prevent the spread of Aids. We, it sounds so good when We come together to remember World Aids Day.
James Pearson
